Friday, 31 May 2013
Wife Catches Husband Red-Handed Sleeping With Their Housegirl
A wife who has been hearing stories around that her husband was enjoying himself with their house maid got the shock of her life recently as she caught them red handed after setting a trap for the two secret lovers.
The source who sent the story to TON said the wife pretend that she was going to her shop and sent the the maid in her husband's presence to go to the market and buy foodstuff. The maid took the money and immediately her husband got up and walked out, saying he's taking a walk...
The woman drove out of the compound with the maid and dropped her at the junction where she would take a bike to the market. She sighted her husband hiding at a corner but pretended she didn't see him. She drove away, parked her car about 200 meters away and walked back to the house.
She entered their sitting room, nothing. Her husband's bedroom, nothing. Their kids room, nothing. It then dawned on her that her shameless husband might be doing the "thing" at the house maid's room. True to her suspicion, the wife caught her husband "very busy" on top the maid.
Funny enough, sources say the wife has discovered that the young girl is already pregnant for her husband and the man is now saying he will marry her as his second wife. The wife is devastated!
The incident was said to have happened in a Lagos suburb but the woman's husband is a rich guy.
Teacher Poses In Bikini To Raise Funds For Tornado Victims (PHOTOS)
The former teacher who said she was forced to resign over one of her racy modeling photos is now using her newfound fame for a good cause.
Olivia Sprauer, who models under the name Victoria James, was let go from Florida's Martin County High School last month. Her story made international headlines and now the 26-year-old former English teacher is putting together a pictorial of her most recent work.
Sprauer told The Huffington Post she plans to donate a dollar from each pictorial sold between now and June 7 to the Red Cross' Oklahoma tornado relief efforts.
"We see a lot of the devastation on TV," Sprauer, a mother of two, said. "It's important for people in the public view to encourage other people to reach out and help people in a desperate and tragic situation."
Here's a sampling of the new work:
Chief Imam Sent To Prison
The Chief Imam of Langbasa Central Mosque in Eti Osa Local Government Area of Lagos State, southwest Nigeria, Alhaji Akibu Alarape Adam, has been arraigned before an Igbosere magistrates’ court for damaging the fence of an estate worth N3 million.
He was remanded in Kirikiri Prisons when he failed to meet his bail conditions.
Alarape, who was arraigned along with three others, Alhaji Oseni Falana, Chief Shamisudeen Elegbeleye and Tunde Ashafa, was alleged to have conspired with others at large to destroy the fence of a 10-acre land located at Langbasa Estate.
Police prosecutor, Michael Okon alleged in the three-count charge levelled against the defendants that the destroyed fence valued at N3 million belonged to Archbishop Dr. Felix Alaba Job.
The alleged offence committed by the defendants is punishable under sections 52, 337 and 409 of the criminal law of Lagos State, 2011.
The defendants pleaded not guilty to the charges and were granted bail in the sum of N5 million by Magistrate H. O. Omisore.
Akibu was sent to Kirikiri prisons following his inability to meet his bail conditions.
The matter has been adjourned till 2 July, 2013 for trial.
He was remanded in Kirikiri Prisons when he failed to meet his bail conditions.
Alarape, who was arraigned along with three others, Alhaji Oseni Falana, Chief Shamisudeen Elegbeleye and Tunde Ashafa, was alleged to have conspired with others at large to destroy the fence of a 10-acre land located at Langbasa Estate.
Police prosecutor, Michael Okon alleged in the three-count charge levelled against the defendants that the destroyed fence valued at N3 million belonged to Archbishop Dr. Felix Alaba Job.
The alleged offence committed by the defendants is punishable under sections 52, 337 and 409 of the criminal law of Lagos State, 2011.
The defendants pleaded not guilty to the charges and were granted bail in the sum of N5 million by Magistrate H. O. Omisore.
Akibu was sent to Kirikiri prisons following his inability to meet his bail conditions.
The matter has been adjourned till 2 July, 2013 for trial.
PHOTOS: J Martins Secretly Weds Longtime Lover
Some like it elaborate, while some like it low key. Super producer and singer J Martins and his bride Nnezi Mbila went for a super low key wedding.
The longtime lovers held their white wedding and wedding reception on Thursday May 30th at Protea Hotel Oakwood in Lekki, Lagos.
P-Square, Uti Nwachukwu, AY, Jude Okoye, footballer Ikechukwu Uche, Senator Ayim Pius Ayim, the governor of Abia State, Theodore Orji and many others were there to celebrate with the couple!
J. Martins and Nnezi had their traditional wedding in January 2012. Happy married life to them!
The longtime lovers held their white wedding and wedding reception on Thursday May 30th at Protea Hotel Oakwood in Lekki, Lagos.
P-Square, Uti Nwachukwu, AY, Jude Okoye, footballer Ikechukwu Uche, Senator Ayim Pius Ayim, the governor of Abia State, Theodore Orji and many others were there to celebrate with the couple!
J. Martins and Nnezi had their traditional wedding in January 2012. Happy married life to them!
P.Diddy's Girlfriend Poses Seductively For Esquire Magazine
It’s a four-alarm fire inside the pages of Esquire magazine and singer Cassie is the accelerant, as she poses seductively for a photo spread.
The girl is hotter than lava, and she isn’t afraid to show off her fit figure. (Who wouldn’t when looking this fly?) She’s smokin’ and she knows it, and the array of images oozes confidence.
The ‘Numb’ performer, 26, shows off a lot of leg — and her skin glows — in a variety of skimpy outfits and stilettos.
She looks like she has legs for days.
The girl is hotter than lava, and she isn’t afraid to show off her fit figure. (Who wouldn’t when looking this fly?) She’s smokin’ and she knows it, and the array of images oozes confidence.
The ‘Numb’ performer, 26, shows off a lot of leg — and her skin glows — in a variety of skimpy outfits and stilettos.
She looks like she has legs for days.
D'banj's Oliver Twist Song Surpasses 20 Million Youtube Viewship
Within a year , Dbanj's iconic song , Oliver Twist has gathered over 20 million views on Youtube and still counting! No other Nigerian locally originated song has attracted such huge viewership across the world as this song.
This is a special moment in the career of a Nigerian song. According to Wikipedia and Youtube sources , the song was No 1 in most African countries, No 2 in the U.K. R & B chart , No 9 in U.K. national chart, No 1 in Romania, No 10 in Belgium, No 12 in Scotland, No 24 in Slovakia and No 19 in Armenian music chart.
Recent U.S. survey also listed the song in Top 5 workout songs in U.S.A. , according to U.S. morning show, Live With Kelly and Michael. Dbanj's Oliver Twist has confirmed itself as a classic.
Super eagles goalie, Austin Ejide set to wed on June 6
Austin Ejide
Ejide stated he did not want the event to clash with national team's activities since they have a friendly match on friday and he wanted all his teammates to be present. Ejide picked westbrom striker and former super eagle, Osaze Odemwingie as his best-man.
He has acquired a Range Rover Sport and an infinity SUV both valued for N20 million ahead of the wedding slated to hold in Lagos just as he added that invitation cards have been distributed to invited guests.
Congrats !!!
Thugs Are After Me--Bimbo Thomas Cries Out
Bimbo Thomas
The film painted her to be a tough lady, and the actress revealed that this has affected her image as people fail to realize that it was just a make-believe role.
The Creative Arts graduate from the University of Lagos (UNILAG) in an interview that even some movie producers are making attempts to stereotype her as an area girl.
But Bimbo confessed that she isn't comfortable with such, adding that she has even started rejecting movie scripts that tends to give her such a role.
But speaking on how she deals with thugs and street urchins, who approach her to give them a dose of her 'Omo Ghetto' character, Bimbo said they (the thugs) even go to the extent of trying to fight her.
She said, "I have problems with the thugs (especially guys), when they see me, they always want me to flow with them.
“They want me to give them what they see on movie screen. Even when I try to give them 'Bimbo Thomas', they don't want to see that. They just tell me to stop pretending and give them my 'Omo Ghetto' character. They even go to the extent of fighting me to make me come out of that shell."
“I always try to explain to them that I acted the 'Nikki' character as a actress and that I am not exactly that 'thug' character. As a matter of fact, I am now careful about, where I go,” she said .
''I Don't Think I Owe The Public Any Detail About My Private Life '' - Tiwa Savage
She reveals her deepest thoughts and feelings about her relationship with Tuneji Balogun a.k.a Teebillz, who also happens to be her manager.
Here is an excerpt,
How do you fell when you are with Teebillz?
I feel safe, the safeness with him is at another level.
You kind of deceived the public about your relationship with him before your engagement
Decieved? I don't think I owe the public any detail about my private life. I will have to choose when to let out something about my life or when not to let it out. I don't see a reason why I must disclose details of my private life.That shouldn't be anybody's business.
As your husband-to-be, is there any song about him on the album?
I can't really say if there is. But as a human being and as a songwriter, it is difficult to write a song without writing about your life and experience. He surely inspired me in writing some of the songs in the album.
@Entertainment Express,
VIDEO TRAILER: Mercy Johnson 'Baby Oku' In America
Before she gave birth, Mercy Johnson had just enough time to crack us with one hilarious movie Baby Oku.
Shot on location in Nigeria and USA, the film depicts Mercy as Baby Oku, a rude, arrogant illiterate who finds herself fortunate enough to be impregnated by Okey who just came back to Nigeria.
she then uses threats to force Okey to marry her and bring her to USA where she becomes Lady and Madam over Okey and turns his life upside down."
Watch trailer below...
Shot on location in Nigeria and USA, the film depicts Mercy as Baby Oku, a rude, arrogant illiterate who finds herself fortunate enough to be impregnated by Okey who just came back to Nigeria.
she then uses threats to force Okey to marry her and bring her to USA where she becomes Lady and Madam over Okey and turns his life upside down."
Watch trailer below...
BBA 8: Housemates engage in kissing galore
A casual game of spin the bottle in the garden resulted in Ghana’s Selly reaching over to Angola’s Biguesas for a passionate kiss much to the amusement and applause of her fellow housemates. This was in between the housemates’ first nominations session in the game.
South Africa’s Koketso could not match up to Selly’s antics when it was her turn to kiss Zambia’s Sulu. Koketso simply hugged the dreadlocked Zambian and gave him a perk on the cheek.
However, it seemed to be Sulu’s lucky day as the green bottle pointed to Selly to give him a warm smooch, almost to make up for Koketso’s shortcomings.
After Koketso’s ‘cheating’, one housemate was heard suggesting that; “from now on it’s either we French kiss or we stop playing the game.” From then on, it was kissing galore on the lips.
Our eyes are wide open as we wait in anticipation of what these kisses will turn into.
Just when the housemates were starting to get acquainted, with some even starting to like each other in a suspicious way, Nigeria’s Beverley was the first to nominate Housemates to be evicted.
The rest of the Housemates were left in deep thought about their own nominations. Others, like Bassey, carried on doing their own thing and tried not to think a lot about what would be going down in the Diary Room.
While most Chasers were not entirely confident with their nominations, the likes of Pokello and LK4 kept their choices simple and their reasons clear, showing that they’ve given a lot of thought to the Nomination Session.
The rest of Housemates’ reasons were rather personal and unacceptable to Biggie, in which case Biggie asked them to give alternative and relevant reasoning.
All Housemates, however, insisted that none of the nominations were ‘personal’
Terrified wedding party run for their lives as T-Rex 'gatecrashes' ceremony in best wedding photo EVER
Unexpected guest: Getting married can be a darting prospect, but this bride has a good reasons to look terrified.. she is being chased by a menacing T-Rex.
“If I leave my husband he will commit suicide” – Chioma Topliss
Delectable and multi-talented Nollywood actress, Chioma Toplis, who won the heart of many in 2005, when she landed the female lead rolein a Nollywood flick entitled, Trinity has said she can’t leave her husband because of the bond they both share.
According to her, only death would separate her from her husband.
Hear her, “Not for me, not matter how they talk about it, it will never happen. I know what I’m talking about because I know the man I am married, it will never happened. That is why I’m not moved when I read what they write on the pages of newspapers and the Internet. In fact, if tell my husband that I am living him today, he will commit suicide.
I am the pillar of that home, though I am not the one proving for the family but I remain the pillar. I can say it again, I don’t see my marriage crashing, if they like let them do or say whatever they like my husband will not leave me it is me that would decide whether I am going to leave him or not.
The actress who said she has never for once cooked for her husband disclosed that she has forgiven her close rival and long-time enemy, Oge Okoye.
She voiced her conviction thus: “I have forgiven all the people who have wronged me and God is moving me higher every day. I do not have any grudge against her; everything that happened to me in the past is just a lesson.
I have decided to forgive anybody who has wronged me; she’s not the first person and as far as I’m concerned she’s not going to be the last person. Chioma has decided to move on with her life.”
Culled– Dailypost
Photos: Zimbabwean Big Brother Africa Rep, Pokello, Sex Tape Leaks
Culled ffrom Trendysturv blog
Big Brother Africa The Chase Zimbabwean housemate Pokello Nare has been hit by a sex tape scandal just a few days after she entered the BBA house. In the sex video, Pokello and her boyfriend Desmond Chideme, a “Zimbabwean urban groover” also known as Stunner are seen having sex.
The sex-tape was reportedly leaked by her boyfriend. Will women ever learn? See the photos below.
Jonathan's Top Aide: How Rita Dominic And Monalisa Chinda Became Sworne Enemies Over His Love
This is the story of two Nollywood actresses.
They have many things in common. They are very talented actresses. They are pretty and sexy. And they have acted in similar movies over the years.
That was why the news that Rita Dominic and Monalisa Chinda recent issues came to many people as a surprise. Though it is not so obvious, all their friends know that both of them avoid each other.
They don’t talk. For quite some time now, there seems to be no love lost between these 2 screen divas.
The 2 movie stars, we gathered, now keep their distance from each other.
The development came to the open on Monday April 8, 2013 at the tribute night held in honor of late actor Justice Esiri.
They were both present at the event.
Gist merchants squealed that when Ms. Dominic who sat at the far left decided to leave the event, she headed straight to where her colleagues such as Kate Henshaw,Chioma Chukwuka, Rosemary Ingbi, Ini Edo including monalisa Chinda seated.
When the African Movie Academy Awards’ Best Actress got there, she greeted all her colleagues but declined to say ‘Hi’ to Monalisa.
The action was seen as a snobbish act on the part of Ms. Dominic to Monalisa.
The sexy mother of one child (Monalisa) could not stand the humiliation that Ms. Dominic gave to her.
We were also informed that the action of these two actors led to different discussions among fun seekers at the event.
Those who know however said their rift started over the affections of a presidential top aide.
According to the gist, it was Monalisa that first got the slot as the babe of the top aide one thing led to the other and the aide met Rita Dominic and stuck unto her.
There are many tales of how the top aide who was a vocal activist has bettered the status of Rita financial wise. He is also alleged to have provided a large part of the cash used in making Rita’s “The Meeting”.
This development, we learnt has locked the heads of these two Nollywood stars together.
They have many things in common. They are very talented actresses. They are pretty and sexy. And they have acted in similar movies over the years.
That was why the news that Rita Dominic and Monalisa Chinda recent issues came to many people as a surprise. Though it is not so obvious, all their friends know that both of them avoid each other.
They don’t talk. For quite some time now, there seems to be no love lost between these 2 screen divas.
The 2 movie stars, we gathered, now keep their distance from each other.
The development came to the open on Monday April 8, 2013 at the tribute night held in honor of late actor Justice Esiri.
They were both present at the event.
Gist merchants squealed that when Ms. Dominic who sat at the far left decided to leave the event, she headed straight to where her colleagues such as Kate Henshaw,Chioma Chukwuka, Rosemary Ingbi, Ini Edo including monalisa Chinda seated.
When the African Movie Academy Awards’ Best Actress got there, she greeted all her colleagues but declined to say ‘Hi’ to Monalisa.
The action was seen as a snobbish act on the part of Ms. Dominic to Monalisa.
The sexy mother of one child (Monalisa) could not stand the humiliation that Ms. Dominic gave to her.
We were also informed that the action of these two actors led to different discussions among fun seekers at the event.
Those who know however said their rift started over the affections of a presidential top aide.
According to the gist, it was Monalisa that first got the slot as the babe of the top aide one thing led to the other and the aide met Rita Dominic and stuck unto her.
There are many tales of how the top aide who was a vocal activist has bettered the status of Rita financial wise. He is also alleged to have provided a large part of the cash used in making Rita’s “The Meeting”.
This development, we learnt has locked the heads of these two Nollywood stars together.
Baba Suwe Loses N25 Million Award At The Court of Appeal
A panel of Court of Appeal judges in Lagos today set aside the N25 million compensatory damages earlier awarded Lagos comedian, Babatunde Omidina ” Baba Suwe ” over a prolonged detention by the National Drug Law Enforcement Agency (NDLEA) last year.
In the ruling, the Court of Appeal re-affirmed the right of the NDLEA to investigate, arrest, detain and prosecute drug suspects as long as the agency acts within the law.
The court said the NDLEA had not violated Mr. Omidina’s rights because it sought and got court orders from the federal high court to keep him in custody after the arrested him on the suspicion that he had ingested hard drugs.
The Court of Appeal came down heavily on the Lagos High court judge that awarded the damages against the NDLEA, describing the decision as oppressive and burdensome to an agency of government carrying out its statutory duties.
Baba Suwe’s attorneys led by civil rights activist, Bamidele Aturu, has vowed to take the matter before the Supreme Court.
Police Recover Pasuma's Range rover jeep
The police have recovered Pasuma's stolen Range rover jeep.
The fuji Musician was robbed of his vehicle and other valuables on monday night at meiran, Lagos-Abeokuta expressway by armed bandits.
It took the joint effort of the police and OPC men to recover the metallic coloured Range rover SUV jeep, with registration number, MUS 830 AP.
The fuji Musician was robbed of his vehicle and other valuables on monday night at meiran, Lagos-Abeokuta expressway by armed bandits.
It took the joint effort of the police and OPC men to recover the metallic coloured Range rover SUV jeep, with registration number, MUS 830 AP.
Thursday, 30 May 2013
I Love My Sister's Boyfriend - Khloe Kardashian Confesses Love For Kanye West
The former "X Factor" presenter's sister Kim is expecting her first child with the 'Power' rapper and Khloe can't wait for the baby to be born in July.
She told Andy Cohen on "Watch What Happens Live:" ''Yeah! I love him. I love Kanye. We've known him forever and I've always loved him.
''Kim and Kanye are 100 percent still together and we are waiting for Kim's baby!''
Khloe also admitted Kanye and Kim have been spending time apart during Kim's pregnancy while he writes his latest album in Europe but insisted they have been trying to be together whenever possible.
She added: ''Kanye is in Paris and London writing his album right now and that has a deadline.
So that's why he's been out of town a lot, but Kim's been there to see him and he has been to Los Angeles quite a few times.
And Atlanta for the premiere of the movie she did with Tyler Perry and to New York a few times.''
She told Andy Cohen on "Watch What Happens Live:" ''Yeah! I love him. I love Kanye. We've known him forever and I've always loved him.
''Kim and Kanye are 100 percent still together and we are waiting for Kim's baby!''
Khloe also admitted Kanye and Kim have been spending time apart during Kim's pregnancy while he writes his latest album in Europe but insisted they have been trying to be together whenever possible.
She added: ''Kanye is in Paris and London writing his album right now and that has a deadline.
So that's why he's been out of town a lot, but Kim's been there to see him and he has been to Los Angeles quite a few times.
And Atlanta for the premiere of the movie she did with Tyler Perry and to New York a few times.''
PHOTOS: Meet The Happily Married Couple Who Never Have Sex
Most evenings, with their little girl safely tucked up in bed, Charlotte and Chris Everiss enjoy a kiss and a cuddle on the sofa in front of the television.
Happily married for a decade, the couple cannot bear to even imagine their lives without one another. Yet, astonishingly, they haven’t made love for more than two years.
Both insist that their marriage, which followed a two-year courtship after meeting on a dating website, is stronger than most. It’s just that sex, they say, is not important to their happiness.
‘We still turn each other on but we don’t want to take it any further,’ says Charlotte. ‘We don’t have the time or the energy.
‘I find it hard switching off knowing that our four-year-old, Addison, is in the next bedroom. I think if Chris really missed sex he would tell me, or I’d catch him watching porn on the internet as a substitute.
‘But he doesn’t seem to want to go back to having sex, either.
‘We sound like Darby and Joan, I know - even though I’m only 34 and Chris is 40 - but that, to us, is contentment.’
Charlotte and Chris, it seems, aren’t the only ones whose sex life has dwindled to nothing. A recent survey estimated that 15 to 20 per cent of couples have sexless relationships - defined by experts as making love fewer than ten times a year - while around 5 per cent go without altogether.
Actress Helen Mirren spoke for many of these couples earlier this year when she said: ‘I think the power of partnership in marriage is under-recognised in our society. That’s what makes marriages work, not sex.’
In a sex-obsessed society, where everyone - young, old, male and female - seems to be boasting of how many times a week they ‘do it’, it may come as a relief to many that couples like Charlotte and Chris are happy to admit that sex plays no part in their marriages at all.
Most couples who find themselves at a point where sexual intimacy has died tend to confide their predicament to no one at all. But today three brave couples reveal how they have learned to live contented lives without sex.
Chris is understanding about her aversion to sex. ‘It can be hard knowing that our cuddles will never lead to anything more intimate,’ he says. ‘Charlotte is a gorgeous woman and I’m still very attracted to her, but she nearly died and I count my blessings every day that she’s even still here.’
‘I have an hour-long commute at either end of my working day so, to be honest, most of the time I’m too tired for sex anyway.’
Chris, a digital marketing manager, says he doesn’t discuss with friends the absence of sex from his marriage, but believes it is more common than people admit.
‘I don’t know that we’re all that different from other couples, we’re just more open about it,’ he says.
In all other respects, the Everisses have an enviable lifestyle. They live in a beautiful, four-bedroom detached home, have a Mini Cooper convertible and a VW Golf parked on the driveway, and enjoy several foreign holidays a year.
Chris firmly believes that marriage is a lifelong commitment and says that walking out on his family has never crossed his mind.
But for a couple who have not yet reached middle age, surely the prospect of living another 40 years without fulfilling basic, primitive urges is difficult to bear?
‘It’s not as if we just stopped having sex because we stopped loving one another, there are reasons,’ says Chris. ‘I don’t take it personally, and my wife and daughter mean far too much to me to look elsewhere for sex.
‘Of course, men have their needs, but I think I’m better able to control my urges than some - I distract myself with hobbies, like doing up old cars.
‘However, I am hopeful that in the future, when Charlotte and I both feel better in ourselves, our sex life will resume.’
Charlotte is less optimistic.
‘Sex was an important part of our relationship in the early days. Like most new couples we had lots of it and it was good,’ she says.
‘I do feel guilty knowing that Chris sometimes gets aroused when we snuggle up together so, out of wifely duty, I’ve tried to let him make love to me a couple of times in the past three years.
‘The one time we went all the way, after we’d shared a bottle of wine one Friday night, it wasn’t at all enjoyable for me. It wasn’t painful, but I lay there thinking: “How quickly can we get this over with?”
‘I think Chris probably sensed that, which is not great, but maybe he was just relieved it was happening at all.’
What do you think? Do they have a point, or do you think their marriage is headed for disaster? Feel free to share your views.
Happily married for a decade, the couple cannot bear to even imagine their lives without one another. Yet, astonishingly, they haven’t made love for more than two years.
Both insist that their marriage, which followed a two-year courtship after meeting on a dating website, is stronger than most. It’s just that sex, they say, is not important to their happiness.
‘We still turn each other on but we don’t want to take it any further,’ says Charlotte. ‘We don’t have the time or the energy.
‘I find it hard switching off knowing that our four-year-old, Addison, is in the next bedroom. I think if Chris really missed sex he would tell me, or I’d catch him watching porn on the internet as a substitute.
‘But he doesn’t seem to want to go back to having sex, either.
‘We sound like Darby and Joan, I know - even though I’m only 34 and Chris is 40 - but that, to us, is contentment.’
Charlotte and Chris, it seems, aren’t the only ones whose sex life has dwindled to nothing. A recent survey estimated that 15 to 20 per cent of couples have sexless relationships - defined by experts as making love fewer than ten times a year - while around 5 per cent go without altogether.
Actress Helen Mirren spoke for many of these couples earlier this year when she said: ‘I think the power of partnership in marriage is under-recognised in our society. That’s what makes marriages work, not sex.’
In a sex-obsessed society, where everyone - young, old, male and female - seems to be boasting of how many times a week they ‘do it’, it may come as a relief to many that couples like Charlotte and Chris are happy to admit that sex plays no part in their marriages at all.
Most couples who find themselves at a point where sexual intimacy has died tend to confide their predicament to no one at all. But today three brave couples reveal how they have learned to live contented lives without sex.
‘I have an hour-long commute at either end of my working day so, to be honest, most of the time I’m too tired for sex anyway.’
Chris, a digital marketing manager, says he doesn’t discuss with friends the absence of sex from his marriage, but believes it is more common than people admit.
‘I don’t know that we’re all that different from other couples, we’re just more open about it,’ he says.
In all other respects, the Everisses have an enviable lifestyle. They live in a beautiful, four-bedroom detached home, have a Mini Cooper convertible and a VW Golf parked on the driveway, and enjoy several foreign holidays a year.
Chris firmly believes that marriage is a lifelong commitment and says that walking out on his family has never crossed his mind.
But for a couple who have not yet reached middle age, surely the prospect of living another 40 years without fulfilling basic, primitive urges is difficult to bear?
‘It’s not as if we just stopped having sex because we stopped loving one another, there are reasons,’ says Chris. ‘I don’t take it personally, and my wife and daughter mean far too much to me to look elsewhere for sex.
‘Of course, men have their needs, but I think I’m better able to control my urges than some - I distract myself with hobbies, like doing up old cars.
‘However, I am hopeful that in the future, when Charlotte and I both feel better in ourselves, our sex life will resume.’
Charlotte is less optimistic.
‘Sex was an important part of our relationship in the early days. Like most new couples we had lots of it and it was good,’ she says.
‘I do feel guilty knowing that Chris sometimes gets aroused when we snuggle up together so, out of wifely duty, I’ve tried to let him make love to me a couple of times in the past three years.
‘The one time we went all the way, after we’d shared a bottle of wine one Friday night, it wasn’t at all enjoyable for me. It wasn’t painful, but I lay there thinking: “How quickly can we get this over with?”
‘I think Chris probably sensed that, which is not great, but maybe he was just relieved it was happening at all.’
What do you think? Do they have a point, or do you think their marriage is headed for disaster? Feel free to share your views.
I Have a Crush on My Best Friend’s Aunt...
I’ve fallen for my best friend’s aunt and she wants us run away together. I’m 19 and she’s in her 50s. It started when I went to a concert in London with my friend. His aunt lives in London and we stayed the night at her flat.
She’s single and has a great job. It was the first time I’d met her and I realised how beautiful she is. She has a better body than many 20-year-old girls. She’s funny, smart and sexy. I couldn’t take my eyes off her. I fell in love instantly.
We got chatting and I flirted with her for a while. It was getting very late and she said my friend and I couldn’t keep her up any longer, as she had to go to work the next day.
I got up in the middle of the night to get a drink of water. I turned round and she was standing there in amazing undies. We started kissing and spent two wonderful hours in her bed, having fantastic sex.
I went back to the other bedroom before my mate woke up. I didn’t say anything to him but she texted me next day, inviting me to go to her flat whenever I wanted. Of course I said yes.
I’ve been telling my family and mates I’ve been seeing an old school friend who moved away. It’s been going on for months and she says she wants me to go to live with her in London, where we’ll be well way from our families. I want this too but I don’t want to leave everyone behind and I don’t want to lose my mate.
PHOTOS: Celebrity Sexaholics: Top 10 Stars That Are Addicted To Sex
Check out TOP TEN celebrity 'sexaholics' who aren't shy to talk about their sexual addictions.
1) Kanye West
The rapper has always spoken openly about addiction, admitting he has battle with an overactive libido since childhood.
During an interview with Details magazine in 2009, Kim Kardashian's boyfriend revealed: “People ask me a lot about my drive.
“I think it comes from, like, having a sexual addiction at a really young age.”
He later told The Sun in an interview: “I think I have a sexual problem, a sexual addiction. I want to do it all the time."
In 2007, he estimated he'd bedded more than 2,000 women, prompting friends to coax him into rehab to treat his overwhelming sexual appetite.
The funnyman admits the experience was a sobering one, revealing: "There aren't hot blondes ripping off their clothes and saying, 'I'm gorgeous, and I just can't get enough!' It's just sleazy men pleasuring themselves in dark corners. Let's not shy away from it: they're paedophiles and perverts."
It seemed to have the desired effect - in 2009 he was tamed into marriage by Katy Perry.
But the relationship lasted just 14 months and Russell admitted he bounced straight back to his old ways - telling US shock jock Howard Stern: "I had a bit of a reaction (after the divorce).
"Like if you've been on a diet of rice for a while and then suddenly Willy Wonka said, 'I need you to run my chocolate factory'."
3) David Duchovny
The actor plays a womanising writer in US TV show Californication.
So it was a case of life imitating art in 2008 when Duchovny checked into rehab to be treated for sex addiction.
Soon after his stint in the clinic it was announced he'd split from actress wife Tea Leoni - amid rumours he'd cheated on her with a string of women.
The couple later reconciled, only to split for good in 2011.
4) Tiger Woods
The golfing superstar's sex addiction came to light in 2009 when his wife Elin Nordegren found saucy text messages he'd sent to mistress Rachel Uchitel.
The resulting scandal lifted the lid on adultery on a grand scale.
Women came forward in their droves claiming to have romped with the millionaire while he was taking part in tournaments across the US.
After months of remaining silent, Tiger issued a statement, admitting he'd cheated and apologising to his wiife.
He then revealed plans to check into rehab "for issues", reported to be sex addiction therapy.
Although Tiger never confirmed the number of women he cheated with during his marriage to Elin - reports claim the number is as high as 121.
5) Jesse James
The TV mechanic's six-year marriage to Sandra Bullock collapsed March 2010, after he was caught cheating on her with a tattoo artist called Michelle 'Bombshell' McGee.
McGee exposed the affair by selling her story to a US tabloid - forcing James to fess up to his Oscar-winning wife of six-years.
With his marriage in tatters, James, 43, checked himself into rehab in Arizona to be treated for sex addiction - amid rumours he'd cheated on Bullock with numerous other women.
In a later TV interview, he addressed his problems, explaining: "I don't think I have a sex addiction where I'm running around trying to have sex with everyone and I can't stop... I think I do things to sabotage my life, including having extramarital affairs, texting, overworking myself, injuring myself, doing stunts and stupid things."
6) Charlie Sheen
Back in 2006, the womanising movie star came second in a Maxim magazine list of the top 10 living sex legends.
It was alleged he'd romped with a mindblowing 5,000 women. And he's certainly added to the tally since then.
A penchant for prostitutes and his well-publicized relationship with porn star 'Goddesses' Bree Olsen and Natalie Kenly both point towards sex addiction.
And he finally confessed that he's probably hooked during a heart-to-heart with US TV doctor Mehmet Oz in January
When asked if he's an addict, Charlie told Dr Oz: "Sure. (But) I don't know the definition of it is."
The TV presenter was stunned to discover she was a sex addict herself, while studying the subject for a Channel 4 documentary in 2007.
Ulrika visited therapists in the US to discover the true nature of the disease and what defines it.
The 45-year-old - who has been married three times and had a well-publicised affair with ex-England boss Sven Goran Eriksson - learned an addict was someone whose sexual behaviour damages their life.
And she came to the conclusion that she fits the profile.
She said: "I suppose thousands of us, who believed we were just unlucky or ill-used, might fit the bill (as an addict)."
Ulrika went onto examine the roots and causes of her addiction.
After much soul searching she realised her troubled childhood, living with an adulterous and porn-addicted father, was largely responsible for her attitudes towards sex.
8) John Mayer
The showbiz swordsman has more sexual conquests than he's had hit albums - with exes including Taylor Swift, Jennifer Aniston and his current on-off squeeze Katy Perry.
But it was one particular lover that left Mayer hooked on sex.
In a cringeworthy confession, Mayer told a 2010 issue of Playboy magazine that he was addicted to sex with his ex Jessica Simpson.
Describing her as "sexual napalm", he said: "That girl, for me, is a drug. And drugs aren't good for you if you do lots of them. Yeah, that girl is like crack cocaine to me."
He went on to add: "There are people in the world who have the power to change our values. Have you ever been with a girl who made you want to quit the rest of your life?
"Did you ever say, 'I want to quit my life and just f***in' snort you? If you charged me $10,000 to f**k you, I would start selling all my s**t just to keep f***ing you.'"
Simpson wasn't exactly flattered by his praise. She later told Oprah Winfrey: "I’m a little bit angry. I don't want people to know how I am in bed!"
9) Lindsay Lohan
If all the rumours about all her sexual conquests are true, the troubled starlet has hundreds of notches on her bedpost.
Confirmed conquests include Calum Best, Harry Morton, Brandon Davis, Aaron Carter, Wilmer Valderrama and McFly drummer Harry Judd.
When asked in 2007 if one of her numerous stints in rehab was related to an addiction to sex, she admitted: "It was a lot of stuff ...you know."
She added: "I enjoy having sex. Being an actress is lonely. I hate sleeping alone."
10) Denise Welch
The Loose Woman star confessed her addiction last year when she was chosen to be the subject of one of Piers Morgan's Life Stories.
When challenged on allegations she'd bedded 1,000 men, Denise admitted she was obssession with sex.
The 55-year-old, who had only just split from hubby Tim Healy, told Piers: "I like sex. What’s the problem with being a sexaholic? I just like s****ing.”
1) Kanye West
'Sex addict from a young age' ... Kanye with girlfriend Kim Kardashian
The rapper has always spoken openly about addiction, admitting he has battle with an overactive libido since childhood.
During an interview with Details magazine in 2009, Kim Kardashian's boyfriend revealed: “People ask me a lot about my drive.
“I think it comes from, like, having a sexual addiction at a really young age.”
He later told The Sun in an interview: “I think I have a sexual problem, a sexual addiction. I want to do it all the time."
2) Russell Brand
Russ's love of the opposite sex is the worst-kept secret in showbiz.
In 2007, he estimated he'd bedded more than 2,000 women, prompting friends to coax him into rehab to treat his overwhelming sexual appetite.
The funnyman admits the experience was a sobering one, revealing: "There aren't hot blondes ripping off their clothes and saying, 'I'm gorgeous, and I just can't get enough!' It's just sleazy men pleasuring themselves in dark corners. Let's not shy away from it: they're paedophiles and perverts."
It seemed to have the desired effect - in 2009 he was tamed into marriage by Katy Perry.
But the relationship lasted just 14 months and Russell admitted he bounced straight back to his old ways - telling US shock jock Howard Stern: "I had a bit of a reaction (after the divorce).
"Like if you've been on a diet of rice for a while and then suddenly Willy Wonka said, 'I need you to run my chocolate factory'."
3) David Duchovny
Break-up ... Duchovny's addiction ended his marriage to Tea Leoni
The actor plays a womanising writer in US TV show Californication.
So it was a case of life imitating art in 2008 when Duchovny checked into rehab to be treated for sex addiction.
Soon after his stint in the clinic it was announced he'd split from actress wife Tea Leoni - amid rumours he'd cheated on her with a string of women.
The couple later reconciled, only to split for good in 2011.
4) Tiger Woods
Web of lies ... Tiger's claimed to have bedded 121 women
The golfing superstar's sex addiction came to light in 2009 when his wife Elin Nordegren found saucy text messages he'd sent to mistress Rachel Uchitel.
The resulting scandal lifted the lid on adultery on a grand scale.
Women came forward in their droves claiming to have romped with the millionaire while he was taking part in tournaments across the US.
After months of remaining silent, Tiger issued a statement, admitting he'd cheated and apologising to his wiife.
He then revealed plans to check into rehab "for issues", reported to be sex addiction therapy.
Although Tiger never confirmed the number of women he cheated with during his marriage to Elin - reports claim the number is as high as 121.
5) Jesse James
Therapy ... Jesse James admits he used sex to self destruct
The TV mechanic's six-year marriage to Sandra Bullock collapsed March 2010, after he was caught cheating on her with a tattoo artist called Michelle 'Bombshell' McGee.
McGee exposed the affair by selling her story to a US tabloid - forcing James to fess up to his Oscar-winning wife of six-years.
With his marriage in tatters, James, 43, checked himself into rehab in Arizona to be treated for sex addiction - amid rumours he'd cheated on Bullock with numerous other women.
In a later TV interview, he addressed his problems, explaining: "I don't think I have a sex addiction where I'm running around trying to have sex with everyone and I can't stop... I think I do things to sabotage my life, including having extramarital affairs, texting, overworking myself, injuring myself, doing stunts and stupid things."
6) Charlie Sheen
Prolific ... Charlie Sheen (with ex-wife Brooke Mueller) has bedded more than 5,000 women
Back in 2006, the womanising movie star came second in a Maxim magazine list of the top 10 living sex legends.
It was alleged he'd romped with a mindblowing 5,000 women. And he's certainly added to the tally since then.
A penchant for prostitutes and his well-publicized relationship with porn star 'Goddesses' Bree Olsen and Natalie Kenly both point towards sex addiction.
And he finally confessed that he's probably hooked during a heart-to-heart with US TV doctor Mehmet Oz in January
When asked if he's an addict, Charlie told Dr Oz: "Sure. (But) I don't know the definition of it is."
7) Ulrika Jonsson
Self-discovery ... Ulrika (with husband Brian Monet) confronted her addiction on a Channel 4 documentary
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The TV presenter was stunned to discover she was a sex addict herself, while studying the subject for a Channel 4 documentary in 2007.
Ulrika visited therapists in the US to discover the true nature of the disease and what defines it.
The 45-year-old - who has been married three times and had a well-publicised affair with ex-England boss Sven Goran Eriksson - learned an addict was someone whose sexual behaviour damages their life.
And she came to the conclusion that she fits the profile.
She said: "I suppose thousands of us, who believed we were just unlucky or ill-used, might fit the bill (as an addict)."
Ulrika went onto examine the roots and causes of her addiction.
After much soul searching she realised her troubled childhood, living with an adulterous and porn-addicted father, was largely responsible for her attitudes towards sex.
8) John Mayer
'Sexual napalm' ... Mayer was hooked on sex with his ex
The showbiz swordsman has more sexual conquests than he's had hit albums - with exes including Taylor Swift, Jennifer Aniston and his current on-off squeeze Katy Perry.
But it was one particular lover that left Mayer hooked on sex.
In a cringeworthy confession, Mayer told a 2010 issue of Playboy magazine that he was addicted to sex with his ex Jessica Simpson.
Describing her as "sexual napalm", he said: "That girl, for me, is a drug. And drugs aren't good for you if you do lots of them. Yeah, that girl is like crack cocaine to me."
He went on to add: "There are people in the world who have the power to change our values. Have you ever been with a girl who made you want to quit the rest of your life?
"Did you ever say, 'I want to quit my life and just f***in' snort you? If you charged me $10,000 to f**k you, I would start selling all my s**t just to keep f***ing you.'"
Simpson wasn't exactly flattered by his praise. She later told Oprah Winfrey: "I’m a little bit angry. I don't want people to know how I am in bed!"
9) Lindsay Lohan
Lindsay Lohan ... star admits she uses sex to overcome loneliness
If all the rumours about all her sexual conquests are true, the troubled starlet has hundreds of notches on her bedpost.
Confirmed conquests include Calum Best, Harry Morton, Brandon Davis, Aaron Carter, Wilmer Valderrama and McFly drummer Harry Judd.
When asked in 2007 if one of her numerous stints in rehab was related to an addiction to sex, she admitted: "It was a lot of stuff ...you know."
She added: "I enjoy having sex. Being an actress is lonely. I hate sleeping alone."
10) Denise Welch
Maneater ... Denise Welch 'loves sex'
The Loose Woman star confessed her addiction last year when she was chosen to be the subject of one of Piers Morgan's Life Stories.
When challenged on allegations she'd bedded 1,000 men, Denise admitted she was obssession with sex.
The 55-year-old, who had only just split from hubby Tim Healy, told Piers: "I like sex. What’s the problem with being a sexaholic? I just like s****ing.”
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