She
is fondly called the First Lady of Sport Journalism. Aisha Falode, who
now anchors a popular talk show that focuses on the home, sure knows how
to do her things in the male-dominated industry. In a recent chat, she
confessed that she now know better what men really want and that if she
ever get married again, no lady will be able to snatch her man.
Below is
what she said:
There has been the argument over what really helps to keep the home. Is it food or sex?
See no pretences. If you talk to 10 men, 90.9 per cent of them, that
is almost a 100 per cent, will tell you that what goes on in the bedroom
is much more important than what is in the plate on the table.
Talk to
them. That is what they go after when they go after girlfriends. The
girlfriends don’t cook for them. It is what they do with these men that
take the men to them. Let’s don’t pretend as women.
Be creative. ‘Daddy, it’s me and you tonight.’ Recreate that old time
and they will enjoy it. Even when they are in the process of straying,
they remember that my wife can give me what I want. Even if they want
to, they are held back because the woman is fantastic, and they are
wondering why they are wasting their time with these small, small girls.
Forget about food. Although it is also important, those people they
are going out to see are not cooking for them. That is the truth. Let’s
be frank about it. Perhaps, if I was as matured as I am when I got
married, I could keep my home. But I wasn’t mature.
If I get a second
chance today, God help the lady that will come and take my place.She
will have to toil for it.
This is the time for women to wake up. Keep your relationship. Keep
your man, whatever it takes.
What is it that he is going to look for
outside? I will give him double at home. This is what men want. We
brought them to the programme on how to sustain your marriage, and they
told us verbatim.
Forget about the food. It is the food in the bedroom
that is more important. Maybe in the days of our mothers, you know they
were traditionalists, they were not adventurous.
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